At 57, I boldly decided to return to school and pursue a Master of Science in Clinical Mental Health Counseling. I'm halfway through the program, maintaining a 4.0 GPA, and working toward securing an internship—one of the final steps before graduation.
My counseling journey wasn't just a career change but deeply personal. Therapy helped me through some of the most challenging times in my life, and now, I want to pass that gift on to others. I know firsthand the power of a compassionate, skilled counselor, and I hope to be that person for someone else.
But going back to school in my late 50s hasn't been without its challenges. If you're considering a similar path, I want to share the pros, cons, and lessons learned.
The Pros of Going Back to School at 57
1. Life Experience is an Asset
At this stage in life, I bring more than just academic knowledge—I bring lived experience. I've faced hardships, navigated transitions, and learned resilience. This gives me a depth of empathy and insight that will help me connect with clients meaningfully.
2. Motivation and Focus
I'm not doing this because I have to; I'm doing it because I want to. Every class, discussion, and assignment matters because I'm invested in becoming my best counselor.
3. Academic Success
When I started, I wondered if I could keep up academically. Now, with a 4.0 GPA, I've proven that I cannot only keep up but also excel. My ability to manage time, stay disciplined, and engage deeply with the material has been a considerable advantage.
4. Flexible Online Learning
Studying online has enabled me to learn on my own while managing other responsibilities. I don't have to relocate or disrupt my life, which makes earning my degree far more accessible.
5. Giving Back in a Meaningful Way
Counseling is more than just a career for me—it's a calling. Therapy changed my life, and I want to pay it forward by helping others find healing and growth.
The Cons of Going Back to School at 57
1. Internship Challenges
Finding an internship has been one of the biggest hurdles. Many placements prefer younger students or those with prior clinical experience. I've had to advocate for myself, network, and persist in finding opportunities.
2. Adapting to Technology
Online learning is convenient but also means adapting to new platforms, virtual discussions, and digital tools. While I'm comfortable with technology, there is still a learning curve.
3. Balancing Energy Levels
Let's be honest—graduate school is demanding. Sometimes, keeping up with coursework, assignments, and practicum requirements is exhausting. Self-care is essential to avoid burnout.
4. Imposter Syndrome
Despite my success, I've had moments of doubt. Do I belong here? Will I be taken seriously in a field where many professionals start much younger? But I remind myself that my life experience and dedication are assets, not limitations.
5. The Financial Factor
Graduate school is an investment. I've had to plan carefully for tuition, books, and internship expenses. But this is a worthwhile investment in my future and the people I will help.
Lessons Learned Along the Way
- You're never too old to start something new. My age is an advantage, not a barrier. My wisdom and experience will make me a more assertive, more compassionate counselor.
- Advocacy is key. Securing an internship requires networking, persistence, and confidence. I've had to assert my value and seek opportunities that might not be immediately obvious.
- Self-care isn't optional. Balancing graduate school with life requires intentional rest, setting boundaries, and managing stress effectively.
- Learning is a lifelong journey. Every class, discussion, and experience adds to my academic, personal, and professional growth.
Final Thoughts: Is It Worth It?
Absolutely. Returning to school at 57 has been one of my life's most challenging and rewarding decisions. There have been obstacles, but the personal and professional growth I've experienced has been invaluable.
Therapy helped me, and now, I get to help others. That makes every late-night study session, every problematic assignment, and every challenge worth it.
If you're considering making a similar leap, go for it. The world needs more counselors who understand life deeply—including those who took the scenic route to get here.
Now, on to securing that internship!
Are you thinking about a career change later in life? I'd love to hear your thoughts and experiences! Drop a comment below.
